
Helpless Husband (part 4)
October 10th, 2011

- All the best my fantasy girl
- :-))
- :-)


- Yesterday, all my troubles seemed so far away. Now it appears they are here to stay.
- Great lyrics! Guess that made u think of me?
- It sure did!
- Well thanks for thinking of me.
- It happens from time to time.
- Ive been pretty successful in avoiding texting you in those situations, not wanting to make you feel uncomfortable, but when i heard that song i felt a moment of weakness
- Awh. Well its funny bc i was thinking of u the other day.
- I still dont think of your initial text as a fluke, but it is what it is
- For whatever reason i keep thinking abt u
- And what types of thoughts are those Mr?
- Wouldnt u like to know :) Especially when looking at yur ninja pic :)
- that one turns up the heat :) Boing
- Oh u liked that one in particular? why? :o
- costumes turn me ON


- Been working out... is the hard work paying off?
- I'll say yes!
- What you doing to remain cool this hot evening?

- Can you answer a personal question for me, you dont have to, if you dont want to... you see my daughter means everything to me, we have an incredible relationship. I know things with my wife wont work out, my question, where did your dad go wrong? Was his actions what tarnished your relationship, was he not there for you? I want to make sure no matter what my little girl and i will still be strong, what can i do?
- Well my dad was fcking his seamstress. He was a stage performer/dancer.
- My mom never told me. I just found out, but I already knew he was a bum.
- He left when i was 7 and would only send postcards and mail from around the country.
- Stupid gifts like coffee mugs.
- I was 7 years old, what was i gonna do with a coffee mug? Burn my mouth with coffee???!!
- Things like that just made him seem inconsiderate to me
- I come from the belief if yur gonna disappear, then disappear.
- Last time i saw him was a year ago. And before that was when he came in town for a court case i was in
- I am sooo sorry
- Could never do that
- Yeah. thanks
- Well its just surprising what people are capable of sometimes
- Sadly i learned humans are capable of terrible things... Great things as well, but we remember the bad
- Your dad though wasn't a man in my eyes
- how u treat your kids is a reflection of the man u are
- But who am i to talk
- I haven't chceated yet, but i am at a point i wont say no the next time
- Yeah he wasn't a dad.
- Have u thought about cheating?
- When i am frustrated i honestly have... never pursued it, turned it down twice, but havent yet
- But i am really drawn to you
- :) well that's sweet i think. I gues my biggest thing is not creating an instance for your daughter like my dad created for me.
- Knowing a kid might be hurt is a turn off
- I agree an as hot as you are i wouldn't jeopardize anything. She will always love me and vice versa
- I dont think an affair would do anything long term. She would be sad if we split but i wouldn't dissappear
- I'll always be there for her
- Yeah but if she found out, like i found out about the seamstress
- Yeah but if yur dad was there for you would that matter now?
- Initially yes she would be hurt, but she knows she is #1 in my books
- Not that i would make it easy for her to find out Lol
- Haha. Yur adorable kinda. But i dont know why. and i can't even believe we met like this.

- Got a question for you.
- okay
- i accidentally deleted your ninja pic you sent me... any chance i can get another one :)
- I dont have it on my phone, but i'll check when i get home. About to go to yoga. What's your wknd looking like?
- Working, unless i have a reason to call in sick :) And you?.... yoga nice, youre flexible then and in shape



- Thanks !!
- Nice to have it back


- Just got back from my run. About to shower :)
- Quick question though
- Are you worried to meet me in person?
- Sounds like someone needs a COLD shower
- Maybe. But what about tmrw. Are u working?
- I have to work in the afternoon
- Meet me for coffe before. Either i'll take an extended lunch or a half day?


- Good morning. Hope u slept well. I can give you at least an hour today. what did u have in mind?
- Well what's a coffe place by you?
- Im South of downtown, near the USC area basically
- Okay let me see what i can make happen. Whats yur time window for lunch break?
- flexible, usually take it around noon

- We can meet at the Starbucks near Wilshire and Union downtown. Its almost on the corner. Let me know when u get close
- ok. i think i can make it. i will see u around 1245
- Its close to my work so let me know when you are ten mins away and i'll come
- How long will u be able to stay?
- Im not sure. hopefully 15 mins. 25? Guess we will see how it goes.
- No worries. i have at least an hour if not more after i leave. just text me when youre close and i'll be on my way

- okie dokie. im nervous.
- Me too heart is pounding
- scary and exciting at the same time
- Im in work clothes just so u know
- Im dressed down too no worries. you close?
- im about to head to starbucks
- Hard to text and drive! traffic is bad
- no worries i'll wait a little
- let me know when yur close and i'll go
- Ok u promis yur not all dressed up? Im wearing my boxing boots bc i have to teach a class when i get back. i think im getting close
- On my way. save me a seat :)

- Not there yet! But my thing says not far. Might be a long vsisit bc this traffic has be run late :(
- me*
- I understand. :(
- Im inside what shall i grab u
- A water is ok. already have cafe
- Look for the guy sitting by himself with a ice mocha and your water
- Cute! IM NOT DRESSED UP.
- Neither am i. no worries. heart is pounding here.

- OH my god!! So i gotta turn around. There is an accident on the exit im supposed to take off the I-10. And my super just called bc there is another fight going on btwn a new homeless guy and one of our homeless regulars. supposedly its a real ground and pound deal. i am SO SORRY
- I understand... you have blue tooth. i would love to call?
- Life happens. No worries
- You do realize this makes u the biggest TEASE
- Lol. Sorry! Been on the phone with my co workers. There is an ambulance at the Y right now dealing with some injuries. OMG!! Can i call u in a bit?
- Actually went back to work... when can i call you?
- obviously i cant' call when im at home, so i'll call after my next break
- Ok. really sorry for the change. I was also pretty nervous
- I mean i wanted to see you, but things happen
- Been dealing with like the paramedics and polices
- The fight was inside and outside. Marguerite (the front counter girl) snapped this:



- God i sounded lame in the voicemail i left you.


- Voicemail was cute. Longest shift ever! So tired. How r u
- Haha i thought it was lame. I bet your tired you had an eventful day
- i spent 4 hours dealing with those homeless fighters.
- so stupid. so much hate
- maybe there's a small window in my day to grab coffe tmrw. possibility?
- I dont think i can.
- To be honest see the aftermath of those homeless guys fighting, the blood and tattered cloth, and all the bullshit made me think alot about how the choices we make can have a big effect on the life we lead and the circumstances we find ourselves in
- Oh wow. I see
- I think yur great. But i think today happened for a reason.
- I shouldnt have sent u those photos. im not ready to be a mistress or worse a stepmom. im gonna part ways and maybe seek help for myself.
- Really? i dont think any of this has gone that far, and i dont think its your fault. Us meeting might actually be a good way to put an end to this. Have some closure if you will. I was so nervous yesterday. I was scared, but also excited.
- I have to block this out for now. if the tides change i will let u know. But i have this mental image of 'Fresno' (that's one of the homeless fighters) lying their all beaten and worthless and i dont want to end up like that physically or emotionally.
- Good luck to you and your family. I am sorry.
- Are u sure this is the right thing? Im sorry if i may have given you a bad impression


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